There are a few situations that perplex me. They involve other people, and we can NEVER decipher the decisions of others without them. All we can do is regulate self and pray for them. (and PRAY I DO) I realize that in these times, God is the best to talk to anyway. He can do something about the situation…either changing them…or changing you (in this case: me).
I pray that you have turned to the source for the conflict resolution in your life. It feels much better when the one thing you can do, is the best likely to produce a yield.